Thursday, November 10, 2011

Here we are again. It's been 3 years!!!

Hank is doing great!

Right after Tom and I found out about Henry's condition, my Mom and Sister Angela packed their bags, jumped in the car, and drove all the way from Raymond(12hrs) to our house in Boise. We were so blessed to have them drop everything to come help us deal with the shock, fear, concern, anxiety, and all the other emotions. Thanks girls. We actually were blessed to have dozens of friends and family give us so much support, but Mom and Ang bought us Rock Band so that's why they got a special shout out. We love that game. Hahaha. The crazy thing is 3 years later we are living across the country, Angela is living with us, and my Mom is here for a visit. Can you believe that? It's like we planned it!
It's nice to have them here to "celebrate" how well Hank is doing TODAY.
He is so much fun. I can't say he is an Angel, but I can say that we love him even more because of all the crazy things that kid accomplishes.
So, to follow tradition, I'm going to say what I've learned this year.
I have decided that what I have really been working on re-learning(because we've all heard it at some point in our lives, most likely too often) is that even though the glass is half empty, I'm going to focus on the half full part.
EXAMPLE?
O.K.- If you read my Blog and thought- "Wow Em is so happy and is having so much fun in Virginia," well, you'd be partially right. Everything I put on the Blog is absolutely the truth. I just choose to leave out the "half -empty" stuff like how I've lived here for almost a year and haven't let myself open up to anyone to really be friends with them. Why? I really can't put my finger on it. I'm sure it means there is something seriously wrong with me, but what-eves right?  Or I could tell you that it takes forever to get anywhere, Tom's commute is 15 minutes of me driving him, followed by a 65 minute train ride, followed by a 5 minute walk(unless leaf oil has anything to say about it). I could, of course go on, but I don't want too. I want to focus on the good stuff.
So to swing this back to Henry, every year he has a ginormous run down of tests. This time he didn't beat all the odds with a few of them. He is showing some signs that he may have trouble controlling his bowels, and bladder. I could go into lots more detail, but I really don't want to dwell on it. He is such a happy little trouper. It isn't bothering him now, and we don't even have to test him again till he's three. The scrapper is running everywhere, he falls all the time, and just gets right back up. I had the physical therapist over and she asked where a certain bruise came from and I seriously had to try hard not to laugh. how can you identify one from the many? One time he fell on one of his little wooden blocks and got a perfect triangle bruise.
O.k. so here is a little up date on the kids personality.
He LOVES Dora!!!!!

"Mom, a Dowa?"

"Daddy a D-o-w-a, a D-O-W-A!"

"Ang, a Dowa?"
"Ga-ma a Do-wa, a Do-wa, a Do-wa...!!!"


Nuff said.

As you can see
Angela and I give him special treatment
cause he is so delicate.


9 comments:

  1. It's funny how when it was all happening time seems to stand still but looking back everything has happened so fast!! What an amazing boy and sooo entertaining!! Have so much fun this week I'm jealous you all get to be together.. Side note- Who are you going to be lazy and pregnant together with!?!? And Angels bathroom cleaning shirt is to DIE for!!

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  2. I'm glad that he's mostly doing well and hope he continues to do as well as he has been.
    I haven't made too many close mates and I think it's because I'm just wrapped up in my life with my kids and hubby to be honest.
    At least there's phone and blogging and skype to keep our mates close right.
    That always helps me when I feel a little lonely.
    I'm glad your sister is with you and your mother can be there right now.

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  3. Way to put that kid to work, Angie! Hey Em, I bet Tim is still looking for someone to take over the family business...looks like Henry is up for the job!

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  4. Hank is THREE! Oh those eyes on that handsome little boy! He is stunning! and such a personality. I'm so glad we were able to see you guys again this past summer and catch a wee glance of his great personality. That Hank is a little boy on a mission, he is unstoppable. Happy Birthday Henry!

    PS- How fun to have your sister staying with you! It's a built in best friend in the next room. I mean, besides Tom. :)

    Also, traffic in DC is AWFUL! I agree. Friendship takes time, I am finding myself thinking the same thing about being here for a year. It will come, it's been a BIG change and your such a great mom to your kids. I'm sure with becoming settled and finally feeling settled you will find your niche and some great friends.
    hugs, A

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  5. Oh, Little HEN! You are the funniest little BIG guy around. Life wouldn't be the same without the DOWA loving sweetheart. ☺

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  6. Oh my goodness.... He looks so cute! I miss those big blue eyes! I can't believe it has been 3 years since you found out. He is nothing short of amazing. LOve you guys!

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  7. Hey can you email me your address in D.C?

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  8. Did I say how much I adore the videos!!!!! well I do!!!!!!!!!!

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